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| Hoton Mandy Garcia |
| Mark Yaconelli yayi magana da matasa manya. |
Matasa goma sha tara sun taru don tattaunawa ta yau da kullun tare da Mark Yaconelli a yammacin Asabar a taron shekara-shekara a Charlotte. Da'irar kujeru sun cika ƙaramin ɗakin taron, kuma tattaunawar ta kasance cikin kwanciyar hankali. An gabatar da taƙaitaccen gabatarwa kafin Markus ya ba da labari don saita jigon lokacinmu tare.
Wani abokinsa ya ziyarci ajin ƴan kindergart ya tambaye su, “Ku nawa ne za ku iya zana?” Duk yaran sun daga hannu. "Ku nawa ne za ku iya waƙa?" Bugu da ƙari, an ɗaga dukkan hannaye. "Da yawa daga cikinku za ku iya zana hoton alade a cikin jirgin ruwa, ko kuma ku rera waƙa game da rawan kunkuru a kan bishiyoyi?" Bayan ya yi tunani na ɗan lokaci, sai ya fuskanci ɗaki mai cike da ƙirƙira, masu fasaha masu son rai da hannayensu sama a cikin iska.
Daga baya, wannan abokin ya ziyarci wani aji mai cike da daliban jami'a kuma ya yi tambayoyi iri daya: Shin za ku iya zane? Za ku iya waƙa? Amma bayan kowace tambaya, hannu ɗaya ko biyu kawai aka ɗaga, kuma waɗancan shigar sun zo da abubuwan cancanta kamar, “Ina yin zane-zanen rayuwa ne kawai,” ko kuma “Ina rera wani salon kiɗa ne kawai.”
Hakan ya sa abokin Markus ya yi wata tambaya ta ƙarshe: “Me ya same ka a cikin shekaru 13 da suka shige?!”
Batun labarin shine cewa dukkanmu mun fara da kwarin gwiwa akan iyawarmu, kuma mun ba mu ikon yin kirkira. Amma ba bayan shekaru da yawa ba za mu shiga cikin al'ummar da ke auna kimarmu kawai ta bayyanar, nasarori, da wadata. Wannan matsin lamba yana haifar da tsoro da damuwa, wanda shine kishiyar soyayya.
Hoton Mandy Garcia
Don mayar da martani ga wannan ƙarshe, Markus ya fara jeri biyu akan wata babbar takarda da aka liƙa a bango. Ɗayan shafi an yi masa alama “Damuwa” da sauran “Love.” Ƙarƙashin "Damuwa" kalmomi ne kamar "sakamako," "mai daidaitawa," da "sarrafawa," amma a layi daya da waɗannan kalmomi wasu a cikin "Ƙauna" nau'i kamar "dangantaka," "ƙirƙira," da "tunani." Kowane matashi a cikin da'irar ya gano lokuta a rayuwarsu wanda ya dace da kowane nau'i, kuma ƙarshen Markus shine cewa kowane mutum ya ɗanɗana lokacin ƙaunar Allah, amma da wuya mu rage gudu don jin daɗin su - don ganin yadda za su iya canza mu.
Don haka Mark ya gayyaci ƙungiyar su bazu, su sami matsayi mai daɗi, kuma su rufe idanunsu. Sannan ya jagoranci mahalarta ta hanyar motsa jiki na addu'a. Bincike ne ta cikin abubuwan tunawa, neman lokuta masu tsarki-lokacin da ƙaunar Allah ta kasance a fili. Ya tambayi yadda waɗannan lokutan suka kasance, me suke ji, yadda suke jin ƙamshi da jin taɓawa.
Bayan mintuna da yawa na bimbini, ƙungiyar ta rabu zuwa ƙanana da yawa kuma ta raba duk abin da suka ji daɗin rabawa daga gwaninta. Ga wasu yana da wahala, ga wasu kuma ya zama sauƙi. Don duk yana buƙatar rauni.
Markus ya yi wata tambaya ta ƙarshe, wadda ta gamu da natsuwa da tunani: Ta yaya za mu iya tabbatar da cewa mun ci gaba da fuskantar lokuta masu tsarki na ƙauna a cikin al'ummar da damuwa ke motsawa?
Ko da yake lokacin ya ɗan yi kaɗan kuma ɗakin yana ƙanƙanta kuma ba shi da kyan gani, Ruhu Mai Tsarki ya sanya mintuna masu daraja, kuma ya motsa mahalarta zuwa wurare masu kyau. Wataƙila ga wasu, wannan abin da ya faru na iya zama sabon tunawa da su na fuskantar bayyanuwar ƙauna ta Allah.
–Mandy J. Garcia ma’aikaci ne na sadarwar masu ba da gudummawa ga Cocin ’yan’uwa.