{"id":548,"date":"2016-06-02T18:15:45","date_gmt":"2016-06-02T18:15:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/new.brethren.org\/messenger\/?p=548"},"modified":"2018-09-21T18:20:25","modified_gmt":"2018-09-21T18:20:25","slug":"a-seat-at-the-table","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/potluck\/a-seat-at-the-table\/","title":{"rendered":"A seat at the table"},"content":{"rendered":"

Soon, I will return to Camp Blue Diamond for my fifth year on summer staff.<\/strong>\u00a0In my years attending camp and working as a counselor and lifeguard, I\u2019ve learned a lot about living in community.<\/p>\n

The community you experience at camp is unlike just about anything you experience anywhere else in today\u2019s world. We\u2019re split into cabin units of 10-15 people, and we spend just about every second with our unit, at cookouts and outdoor adventures, Bible studies, and structured and unstructured play. There\u2019s no technology, and the only distractions are the ones we create together. It\u2019s the closest thing to intentional community living that I and most of my campers have ever experienced.<\/p>\n

As a counselor, your very first job is to break the ice by helping campers learn each other\u2019s names and get acclimated to the camp environment. Building community is hard, often awkward, work.<\/p>\n

That first night there are a lot of important decisions to make as a group. You have to choose what to eat for your cookout dinner on Tuesday evening, your cookout breakfast on Thursday morning, and your cookout snack Thursday night. You have to pick when you do arts and crafts and nature sessions, when to go to the lake, and when to do the climbing tower and giant rope swing. The thing is, making decisions with other people is tough when you\u2019ve just met them.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where the counselors come in. That first night it\u2019s really the counselors who drive the discussion. Whatever decisions counselors suggest, it\u2019s likely that the campers will eagerly agree. And that\u2019s okay for a starting point in your little camp community, but it shouldn\u2019t be where the community stays. A big part of growing as a community throughout the week is allowing your campers to grow as engaged participants and leaders in the group.<\/p>\n

Thankfully, kids living in community get it. They make fast friendships, and they approach life with unabashed enthusiasm. By Wednesday, your cabin unit looks like a real community, and it is the campers, not the counselors, taking the lead on making decisions like where to go on the hike and what to do for skit night. Communities are at their healthiest when everyone participates, when everyone has a voice.<\/p>\n

Right now, the Church of the Brethren is making a lot of important decisions. There are queries before Annual Conference about the environment, same sex marriage, On Earth Peace, and church unity in the face of division. The church is also evaluating its denominational structure and long-term vitality. The Church of the Brethren can make these decisions as a healthy community only if everyone has a seat at the table.<\/p>\n

In particular, the Church of the Brethren should do more to include youth and young adults in its decisions, especially decisions related to the future of the church. At this Annual Conference, only two candidates for denominational leadership fit into the \u201cyoung adult\u201d age bracket of 18-35, and only one of those two is in his 20s. No college-age Brethren are on the denomination\u2019s Review and Evaluation Committee or the body studying denominational vitality, even though college-aged Brethren are the church\u2019s next generation of leaders. There are a lot of young people in the church who are eager to make sure its teachings of peace, community, and simplicity continue to touch people in a society that finds all of those principles increasingly foreign.<\/p>\n

In Acts, Peter has a vision of foods that are no longer taboo, and he sits down at a table with people he once considered unclean. His conclusion: \u201cI should not call anyone profane or unclean\u201d (Acts 10:28). The church, Peter discovered, must have room for everyone to sit at the table. Jesus Christ is \u201cLord of all\u201d (Acts 10:36)\u2014young and old, black and white, male and female, conservative and progressive, gay and straight\u2014and he invites everyone to have a seat at his table. Likewise, the Church of the Brethren must make sure that everyone has a seat at the table as it makes decisions about its future.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Young people in the church are eager to make sure its teachings of peace, community, and simplicity continue to touch people.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":550,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[104,50],"class_list":["post-548","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-potluck","tag-emmett-eldred","tag-potluck"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=548"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":553,"href":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548\/revisions\/553"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/550"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=548"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=548"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brethren.org\/messenger\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}