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Mission Statement The Committee on Interchurch Relations (CIR) will pursue, promote, and celebrate respectful conversations, loving relationships, and shared ministries with other communities of faith to create an ever-widening circle of the Gospel of Peace.
Three of the members of the CIR are elected by Annual Conference To pursue, promote and celebrate ecumenical conversations, relationships and shared ministries with other communities of faith in order to create an ever-widening circle of the Gospel of Peace on the following levels of ecumenicity:
Suggestions for Building Local Ecumenical Relationships Invite other churches or groups to your church for selected events Pick a congregation with whom you have a natural connection. Seek groups with whom you share common activities or personal friendships, groups located nearby, or people with whom you genuinely desire to build bridges of understanding across cultural and/or racial differences. Make contacts at whatever point or level is natural; share ideas and hopes; encourage your contacts to follow-up within their congregations as you follow-up in yours. Keep in touch and pray for openings and positive responses in your congregation and theirs. Special events can include ecumenical services (e.g., Thanksgiving, Martin Luther King, Jr. commemorations, AIDS vigils) peace or environmental stewardship events, joint community service project, etc. Work with your congregational leaders to choose a particular worship service or event to invite your friends to attend. Extend formal invitations to the congregation and also repeatedly extend personal invitations to individuals that you know within the congregation. Express genuine hospitality. Encourage wide range participation in planning and conducting the event so that so that there will be widespread ownership and participation within your congregation. Communicate early, openly and often with both congregations/groups to remind people of what will be happening and why. Enjoy the event together. Be thoughtful and considerate hosts. Don't assume everyone knows what you're doing and why. Communicate explanations naturally and in a mature manner. Afterwards, evaluate the event in your congregation and seek feedback from your contacts in the other congregation. See if there is interest in and support for a return invitation or an ongoing relationship.
Explore what another church is doing, and then think about how our participation might be welcome. Continually invite individuals and entire congregation(s) to share in each other's activities and events. Don't expect large numbers to go or come except for special events. Encouraging occasional visits and participation in events can help foster our mutual respect, support and relationship over time. Brainstorm ideas together. Try not to feel rejection if your ideas are not adopted in part or in whole. Remember, you are seeking opportunities to learn from each other and build a mutual relationship. Do not plan too many special events together. Your congregation may have a full schedule and may not support more than two or three events a year. Encourage many informal, individual contacts. Pastoral preaching exchanges, joint choir concerts or exchanges, joint service projects, etc. are ways of having significant contacts. If well planned, these events can help build ongoing relationships. Periodically, reflect together on what you are doing and why. Are mutual understanding and diversity valued in your relationship? Are new approaches or changes needed? Is God calling you to take your relationship to a deeper level? Is the congregation ready to respond to God's call and if so, how? Remember that God moves in mysterious ways and not according to our plans. We pray that God's grace and guidance will lead your congregation forward peacefully, simply and together. Back to General Secretary Home Page | Back to Annual Conference Home Page © 2007 Church of the Brethren. All rights reserved. |
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