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For more information,
please contact:

Kim Ebersole
Director of Family and
Older Adult Ministries
800-323-8039, ext. 305
kebersole@brethren.org

 Family Life Ministries

The Church of the Brethren family life ministry
seeks to embody the healing love of Christ
by affirming, equipping, and supporting
families of birth and families of choice
to live in healthy, resilient relationship.

Being a part of a family is a gift from God. Our families care for us physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. We, in turn, care for our families in the same ways. This cycle of caring is both a natural and a learned skill. Creating and sustaining healthy relationships is crucial to sharing a life in Christ.


October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

SAFETY ALERT: If you are in danger, please call 911, or the National (U.S.) Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 or TTY 1-800-787-3224.

Would you know if someone you love is a victim of domestic violence? How should you respond to someone in an abusive situation? Perhaps you are in an abusive relationship—where can you turn for help? And just what is considered “domestic violence”?

Answers to these questions, along with resources about domestic violence, are available from these organizations:

The National Domestic Violence Hotline  1-800 799-SAFE or 1-800-799-7233
Hotline advocates are available for victims and anyone calling on their behalf to provide crisis intervention, safety planning, information, and referrals to agencies in all 50 states, Puerto Rico, and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Assistance is available in English and Spanish with access to more than 170 languages through interpreter services. (Information from www.thehotline.org)

The website contains information about domestic violence, how to know if you are in an abusive relationship, how you can help a friend, and how to develop a safety plan.

The Domestic Violence Awareness Project  
DVAP Logo 150x97The Domestic Violence Awareness Project website provides information about domestic violence—what it is, how to determine if you or a loved one is in an abusive relationship, and how to get help or respond. Suggestions for talking with your children about healthy relationships and domestic violence, as well as raising awareness in your community are also available. 

FaithTrust Institute
FaithTrust Institute is a national, multi-faith, multicultural training and education organization with global reach working to end sexual and domestic violence. Founded in 1977 by the Rev. Dr. Marie M. Fortune, FaithTrust Institute offers a wide range of services and resources, including training, consulting, and educational materials. They provide communities and advocates with the tools and knowledge needed to address the religious and cultural issues related to abuse. (Information from www.faithtrustinstitute.org

Click on the titles of these articles from FaithTrust Institute to learn more about what individuals, religious leaders, and religious communities can do to respond to sexual and domestic violence.

What Individuals Can Do to Respond to Sexual and Domestic Violence

What Religious Leaders Can Do to Respond to Sexual and Domestic Violence

Responding to Domestic Violence: What the Religious Community Can Do

Domestic Violence Awareness Month
In October 1987, the first Domestic Violence Awareness Month was observed. In 1989, the U.S. Congress passed a law designating October of that year as National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Every year since then, legislation has passed designating October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month. 

       -- Adapted from the 1996 Domestic Violence Awareness Month Resource Manual of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
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We can all play a part in strengthening families

The Family Life Ministry of the Church of the Brethren encourages all individuals and congregations to play a role in making their communities better places for families. Research shows that five important factors are present in healthy families:

  • nurturing and attachment
  • knowledge of parenting and child and youth development
  • parental resilience
  • social connections
  • concrete supports for parents

View the Strengthening Families and Communities: 2011 Resource Guide (PDF). *Note: This document is 94 pages and may take awhile to download.

A set of six parenting tip sheets (in English and en Español), is available below. Topics include bonding with your baby, dealing with temper tantrums, connecting with your teen, teen parents, ways to be a better dad, and raising your grandchildren.

Let’s Move

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As a parent, grandparent, aunt or uncle, Sunday school teacher, or someone who just cares about the well-being of children, you are invited to participate in Let's Move! Let's Move! is a national initiative focused on solving the challenge of childhood obesity. Recently, Let's Move! launched a component specifically encouraging the involvement of faith and community leaders, and the Church of the Brethren was asked to be a part of this launch.

Visit the Church of the Brethren's Let's Move! website to learn more about the program, ways the denomination's ministries are connecting to Let's Move!, and how your family and congregation can be involved. You can also share ways you and your church are moving and being active.

www.brethren.org/letsmove

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Connecting Generations

Connecting Generations 200 Connecting Generations is a monthly meditation about aging. While written specifically with older adults in mind, people of all ages are encouraged to read it and think about the issues each edition addresses.

Each Connecting Generations contains a scripture, meditation, and prayer about some aspect of growing older: spiritual tasks of aging, role changes, the challenge of caregiving, transitions, and leaving our legacy. There are also several questions to think about and discuss with your friends, family, and members of your faith community, as well as reading suggestions related to the topic.

You can receive Connecting Generations by e-mail each month or download a PDF of each edition by visiting the Connecting Generations webpage.

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End-of-life decision making: video resource available

“Unexpected travels in healing call for multiple Samaritans on modern Jericho roads”

Curtis W. Dubble and David E. Fuchs, MD
Photo by Cheryl Brumbaugh-Cayford

2011 National Older Adult Conference (NOAC) keynote presenters Curtis W. Dubble and David E. Fuchs, MD, tell the touching and powerful story of the Dubble family's experience as Curtis' late wife Anna Mary suffered brain damage following a heart attack. Dubble and Fuchs speak frankly about the need for having and communicating advance directives, the importance of developing a strong support system of caregivers, and how crucial a life of faith and prayer is during difficult times.

Read more about the presentation here.

The hour-long presentation is a helpful resource for individuals, families, deacons, and congregations as they explore end-of-life issues. The audio CD is $10.00 and the video DVD is $15.00.

Download the order form here.

 

Children’s Sabbaths®

Smallboat_smallSponsored by the Children's Defense Fund (CDF), the National Observance of Children's Sabbaths Celebration is a way for faith communities to celebrate children as sacred gifts of God, and provides the opportunity for houses of worship to renew and live out their moral responsibility to care, protect, and advocate for all children.

The third weekend of each October, your congregation is invited to join thousands of churches, synagogues, mosques, and temples across the country in this celebration by holding special worship services, education programs, and advocacy activities to engage people of faith in the lives of children and their families.

This celebration aims to unite religious congregations of all faiths across the nation in shared concern for children and a common commitment to improving their lives and working for justice on their behalf.

To assist communities with planning and implementing their Children's Sabbaths® Celebration, CDF produces an annual National Observance of Children's Sabbaths Manual: A Multi-faith Resource for Year Round Child Advocacy. The worship resources and prayers are intended for use throughout the year.

The 2012 Children’s Sabbaths® observation will be the weekend of October 19-21.

The Church of the Brethren joins more than 200 other religious denominations and organizations in supporting the National Observance of Children's Sabbaths®.

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